Tracy your question is a bit confusing which is why you may not have had any replies - but a good solicitor should be able to help or certainly advise...
Just as a point of information if someone wants to lend some one else money, the person lending can protect themself by having a cenet drawn up - I don't know much about the detail of this but always a good idea to consult a lawyer and think about how to protect usually hard earned assets.
