I have finaly convinced my daughter it is not a good idea for her to go to Turkey for a year when she leaves school, it was hard but with the help of this forum i did it! Thanks for all of your comments, even though she has only put it off until she has finished uni. I will just have to persuade her not to go then unless of course i have moved there by then
. She thinks by living in Calis it will be like a year long holiday but it won't, she will have to work pay bills etc etc. She has fallen in love with the beautiful place on a first visit, i just hope she doesn't meet a man "she falls in love with" in turkey, how hard would it be to persuade her not to go??? Anyway Thanks everyone, you have helped alot. Sarah