I never book speedy boarding or seats together either, and we have never had a problem with getting seats together. It's just another way of them making a few more quid!
The other thing I like about easyjet is that they don't weigh hand luggage. As long as your holdall fits into the luggage stand provided, they don't care about the weight!
Easyjet are the only airline I have ever taken the time to email and compliment on their fantastic service. In April last year flying out of Dalaman, there were only about 20 of us on the flight (one member of staff per 3 people - talk about individual attention; it was fab!). As we were all seated very quickly, they made an announcement asking if any of us minded leaving an hour early? The plane took off minutes later! The food was excellent and better priced than most airlines, and the staff were very cheery and helpful! It was a pleasure just being on the flight, even if it meant leaving our lovely holiday home behind!!!
Easyjet all the way I say!