Be careful, DHL are a small package operater and anything that does not fit into their remit, they will take it but it will cost you a fortune. The same goes for UPS for that matter. Also the question of the goods being personal effects will be asked, and in most cases couriers won't touch 'em.
Best thing to do in my opinon, is to be ruthless and ask yourself 'do I really need to take this with me?'
Bratz Party Bus! she will forget about that after a day or so.