hi everyone just hoping someone can give me some advice. my boys and i have been here 5 years come june and are doing the kimlik process. i understand the process etc, but my question is this - what will we really gain? and what will we loose as far as Uk is concerned if anything? im not sure if its worth doing as i am petrified of the turkish exam, even tho i have been learning for 5 years still struggle so much. im not married or involved with a turkish man and feel this will be held against me too. can any one help a nervous family!! thanks Liz (and please dont suggest i marry a turk!)