Hi Patsy,
I can only give you my opinion for what its worth, we went to Spain for years when the kids were younger and we loved it, but in recent years I think its changed, I don't think they have a very high opinion of the Brits(and we all know that in some instances you can't blame them), and they have built all these massive "urbanisations" where the English or Germans or whatever have their own shops and bars and restaurants (serving 'English' food) and you never hear a word of Spanish spoken, or experience Spanish culture.
Once we started going to Turkey we fell in love with it and its people,I would hate it to go anything like Spain. We are in the process of buying a house in Calis, but before we did we went back to Spain just to reassure ourselves that we were doing the right thing, we had a nice time but it wasn't Turkey for many of the reasons given by the other members of his forum. Whatever you decide I wish you good luck and lots of enjoyment of your new home.
Val