Quote from Jacqui's post read - The blame is being laid at the door of pools not having lifeguards. One couple feature whose 4 year old was found at the bottom of a pool in Turkey are annoyed there was no lifeguard.
My initial response referred to the fact that one particular family appeared to blame the fact that there was no lifeguard. Having four children myself, I know just how easy it is to take your eye off the ball. I've had shocking panic attacks when one or another wandered off, or once, one toddler even went up in the lift while I was fiddling with the pushchair of another! Think about that! Which floor? should I wait? should I try to follow and miss him altogether? Somebody might take him etc etc. . . Hideous, horrible panic. 'Let he without sin cast the first stone' eh? But at the end of the day your children are your responsibility and nobody else's.
