I'll try again. Exactly what sort of brexit were the brexiters wanting? Hard, Soft, Squidgy?
As for "well apart from the £ tanking, I haven't noticed anything" - we're still in the EU for the time being! The effects of inflation will follow shortly, the effects of falling foreign investment (and indeed disinvestment) a bit later, and later still, if you give up access to what is the world's most lucrative and most free of free trade zones with no immediate alternative you'll get a return to the RED TAPE of customs checks and tariffs (I thought you were ditching the red tape - this Brave New World looks to be, well, a bit more red-tape-ish to me)
As for the EU's perceived lack of democracy. How about ushering in an un-elected leader whose party only gained a small proportion of the electorate's vote to conduct our county's future policy in secret and not allowing parliament a say in it? That'll show those pesky Europeans how to run an undemocratic show.
Finally, for the European Army issue, doesn't the UK have a veto on this?