I totally agree with all the stuff that's been said about your kids and parents etc. but my mum is 87 years old, still going strong (but truthfully how much longer) my son is 40 years old but has Aspergers Syndrome which means he has no friends, finds it hard to make any sort of relationship, and spends most of his life alone, on his computer, I would love to make the move to live in Calis, but I have responsibilities that I cannot just abandon. I am very jealous of the people who are able to go ahead with the move, despite their problems, but I do wish them all the very best, and look forward to many holidays to come.