Thinking of you both, Ceni, we met Alan once on a guided walk, and as readers of the CBF we send you our positive thoughts. My sister and I supported our Mum through 9 months of chemo and 3 weeks of radiotherapy ten years ago now. Her best advice was to have positive mental attitude, if you can follow that then you will be doing just right.
Take care, look out for each other and you will be fine.
Love Carol, Marc and girls