If you live in Calis why does your side bar show you live in UK?
If you do live in Calis (which I doubt) why are you moderating the Uzumlu forum? You say you help to keep the peace on this otherwise happy forum! As I said before, your contributions are not welcome here and you should perhaps limit yourself to problems in Calis.
This is not a happy forum. Many people feel their opinions are censored by those in charge. If you want a forum where everyone agrees with you, then go back in time to Nazi Germany and you will find a blueprint for the forum you desire.
Happy Days,
Brian.