Thanks for the input folks and after checking out every new car dealer in Fethiye, and after changing our minds about what we really needed (a few times), a decision was eventually made - so today took delivery of a Kia Venga (no i had never heard of them either) it was the size we needed, its a diesel, has a long warranty and it was heavily discounted as its a 2011 model.
Out of everything we tried our initial choices were too small so we went bigger, the Citroen Berlingo was the comfiest and had the most kit, but it was too big and the Renault Kangoo best value for money but also too big, so we tried everything in between.
So ask again in 5 years time and see if the choice was a good one.