Fafbear,
From the Surf Cafe you are actually at the start of Koca Calis. If you walk about 1/2mile with the sea on your left you will see what we Koca Calis owners regard as Koca Calis. You will find a few restaurants on the beach and one or two small supermarkets. Beyond that you will find residential sites such as Telmessos, Saglik, Denizkent and one or two others. If you walk up the main road towards the main Calis/Dalaman road and go straight across you will eventually come to the village of Ciftlik which is the main village for the area. It's not too far from the Dalaman road.