Saoirse - as you may have gleaned from reading my posts I am indeed a simple soul. However....
You are correct regarding the subject of the thread. But, it was you, not I, who stated that "consistency/hypocrisy is the key"
Fact: You do consider the torching of two people as dark humour.
Fact: You do not find the murder of people in the same way.
You are correct in your assertions elsewhere that people do not know you. But what they do know is that they considered your post, which started all this, to be offensive and, in my opinion, they have every right to take you to task over it.
You maybe right about us going round in circles, but I would be obliged if you would address the consistency/hipocrisy issue one more time and we can leave it at that.