O.K. This guy is as honest as the day is long, as you are too H and I am not disputing that matter. Sunlover was asking if "anyone was going out" so in fact, she was willing to let anyone she does not know meet up with her and take her money. I would say this is a risky thing to do. She admitted this herself in so many words.
I also run a business which I am sure I would not have run for 20 years if I told customers I would only accept one method of payment, a method that they did not care to use. I am sure they would vote with there feet and go elsewhere and find someone who gave good Customer service.
I am sorry, but I never heard of a business that tells customers they only use Western Union. Every business has a Bank Account and should be willing to accommodate their Customers.