We have lost both our mam,s this year. I couldn,t bring myself to make the move while my mam was alive. I was worried about leaving our grown up children and grandchildren behind, right up until one dropped the bomb shell she intended to go to Canada with them. It really put things into perspective for me, time for us all to live our own lives. Doesn,t mean we all love each other any less, just time to cut the apron strings a bit.