If you were locked out you couldn't have posted that message. Where exactly is this "aggressive approach"? Not in the topic where you found the answers very helpful, that is known as a "helpful approach". A topic you started in "Member Introductions" which didn't not resemble a member introduction (entitled "Dentists") was locked by one of our cuddly moderator team and a link given to the replies to the question you asked. These replies you found helpful. It is normal to lock topics in member introductions that aren't member introductions. This I find to be reasonable. Unless of course a topic is started in Member Introductions called "Dentists" by some dentists who are introducing themselves.
If you can show me where you have been locked out I might be able to help. As things stand, you have lost me completely.