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Calis Beach Forum => Calis Beach Questions and Information => Topic started by: Karennina on June 26, 2013, 08:37:00 AM

Title: Fish man in Calis!
Post by: Karennina on June 26, 2013, 08:37:00 AM
There is a thread on facebook just started up on the Fethiye ex pats page about a man who is selling fish around Calis and Koca Calis who follows you into your house to fillet the fish and has been trying it on with some of the women, just be careful if you are a lady on your own and this man comes to your house...
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Post by: Jacqui Harvey on June 26, 2013, 08:41:48 AM
I wrote about this guy yesterday selling fish to the neighbours.  He came into our garden the week before when my husband was taking the rubbish down to the bins.  I told him I did not want any fish and I thought it strange that he kissed my hand, then kissed me on both cheeks!!!  However, neighbours arrived home and he left. 
Title: Re: Fish man in Calis!
Post by: Karennina on June 26, 2013, 08:53:57 AM
Yes I saw that Jacqui and wondered if it is the same guy, apparantly he followed two women in their house and tried it on with them (not sure what that entailed) and another lady was sunbathing he tickled her feet and legs, the thing is the more he gets away the bolder he may become if not stopped :(
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Post by: desmartinson on June 26, 2013, 08:57:40 AM
Oh Dear, Be careful ladies. maybe a good kick in the Balik,s might suffice.  :)
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Post by: GordonA on June 26, 2013, 10:50:21 AM
Something smells not quite right here, & it ain't his fish !! Be very careful ladies.
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Post by: Menthol on June 26, 2013, 15:59:42 PM
Needs to keep his fish fingers to himself.  >:(
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Post by: Ray1951 on June 26, 2013, 16:03:15 PM
Now that his actions have been exposed, I'm sure there will be a few old scrubbers in the vacinity, wanting to buy some fish from him.
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Post by: Scunner on June 26, 2013, 16:11:10 PM
Charming post Ray
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Post by: Scunner on June 26, 2013, 16:11:34 PM
Needs to keep his fish fingers to himself.  >:(

The Yorkshire Kipper
Title: Fish man in Calis!
Post by: Lotty on June 26, 2013, 16:49:55 PM
All a bit fishy to me.
Title: Re: Fish man in Calis!
Post by: Jacqui Harvey on June 26, 2013, 17:22:18 PM
Now that his actions have been exposed, I'm sure there will be a few old scrubbers in the vacinity, wanting to buy some fish from him.

How very disrespectful to women and particularly woman who stay in Calis.   To imply they would welcome an encounter with a sex pest is unbelievable...  >:( :(
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Post by: Scunner on June 26, 2013, 17:25:35 PM
Quite, especially as I believe Ray1951 is a female member.
Title: Re: Fish man in Calis!
Post by: Ray1951 on June 26, 2013, 17:56:12 PM
There was no disrespect intended, especially if you are a respectable person but lets not kid ourselves we all know that there are some women out there who have no respect for themselves and who are the subject of many a 'laugh' when people get together. There are lots of inuendo's about older women and young Turkish men! The fish man may not have had any bad intention other than being overly freindly, to which some people may find unwelcome.
Title: Re: Fish man in Calis!
Post by: Miss.M on June 26, 2013, 18:10:35 PM
In what area is this happening around Calis? All over or just in one specific area? Rather concerning that a man is harassing women under the pretense of business. If this is still happening up to the holiday then I'll make sure to warn our group of any suspicious people around the apartment area and pool.

If he tried to tickle my feet or legs he'd get a kick somewhere painful! Though that's out reflex. 

Ray1951, there may be some women like that (though I've yet to meet any) but currently it seems this man has made more people uncomfortable than anything else. We all know Turkish people are very friendly but there's a boundary, and some feel that this man has clearly crossed it
Title: Re: Fish man in Calis!
Post by: Karennina on June 26, 2013, 19:03:43 PM
 The fish comments have given me a right chuckle today particularly the "balik" one   :) But I am very surprised by Ray1951's comment...yes we all know the stories about old English women and young Turkish men, indeed we sat on the prom and watched two occasions it may have been nothing but we found it a little cringey all the same... this is very different indeed to have someone try to touch you tickle you or whatever when you are not a willing party in it....
Miss M one incident was a house up by the old upy downy bridge and another in Koca Calis I will have a look on facebook later for an update....
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Post by: Steve A on June 26, 2013, 20:20:38 PM
She was only the fishmongers daughter,she lay on the slab and said fillet
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Post by: Dennis Vint on June 26, 2013, 20:36:33 PM
It's probably the plaice where he comes from......he's only codding!  :)  ;)
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Post by: GillS on June 26, 2013, 21:22:34 PM
Ray, I find your comments totally unacceptable and was shocked to read them, seeing as the incident refers to me and my friend who most certainly do not wish to receive any attention of this kind! It was an extremely uncomfortable situation as he walked straight in and when we told him we did not want to buy his fish and asked him to leave in Turkish as he sat himself down, he then tried to kiss my friend who pushed him away and then he tried to kiss me and I pushed him firmly away and told him to get out!! Overly friendly or not I believe he would never try to do that to Turkish women! And Ray we are two very respectable ladies who were totally unnerved by the experience!!!
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Post by: DANKY on June 26, 2013, 21:25:06 PM
oh my Cod  ;D
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Post by: Ray1951 on June 26, 2013, 22:42:40 PM
GillS, I am sorry that you have had such an unpleasant experience and meant no disrespect. This must have been quite frightening and fortunately you were not alone. May I point out that at no time did I make reference to nationality.  Whilst some comments have been regarded as 'humerus', others aren't. This man should certainly be reported and people should be very careful, especially if they are alone.  I live alone and would be terrified if I encountered him.  I do take preventative measures and can tell you that anyone accosting me,  would easily be identified for at least 7 days after any incident. I will say no more and hope that this man is dealt with to ensure the safety of any female.  Apologies for any unintentional offence caused.
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Post by: Partygirl on June 27, 2013, 02:07:08 AM
He came into our garden. Fortunately my hubby was there. He came straight in. Straight onto the terrace where I was and was right in my face. Then hubby joined me but was hard to get rid of him. It made me wonder if he was checking out the joint. I Grabbed my phone when I saw him approach the terrace. Felt very uncomfortable. Our place is up by the old age pensioners home past the upsidedown bridge!
Title: Re: Fish man in Calis!
Post by: mog on June 27, 2013, 02:35:11 AM
Yes I saw that Jacqui and wondered if it is the same guy, apparantly he followed two women in their house and tried it on with them (not sure what that entailed) and another lady was sunbathing he tickled her feet and legs, the thing is the more he gets away the bolder he may become if not stopped :(

have to look out for him. My misses loves her feet being tickled, and i'm partial to a bit of fish.
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Post by: mac2010 on June 27, 2013, 08:07:18 AM
 He might not be all there upstairs, he could be eel in the head . :o
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Post by: lance on June 27, 2013, 09:22:18 AM
Seems to me he needs a good battering.  ;)
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Post by: Scunner on June 27, 2013, 10:13:08 AM
Interesting to see a disagreement in a fish topic between Ray and GillS

(I can only take 50% credit for the above observation) :D
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Post by: Lotty on June 27, 2013, 10:19:06 AM
Words out if my mouth Keith!
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Post by: Ray1951 on June 27, 2013, 10:23:14 AM
StingRay - apparently!  SORRY   :(