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Offline sannyrut

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« on: February 15, 2011, 16:47:42 PM »
Yesterday morning,my 94 year old father-in-law fell on the back steps of his house and couldn't get back up.He summoned assistance using his personal "alert" fob.At the same time,two carers arrived to get my 97 year old mother-in-law out of bed and ready for the day.One of the carers found my father-in-law and an ambulance was summoned.Two ambulances arrived,followed by the "alert" system helper.There are now 6 people in their house.My father-in-law was taken to hospital by ambulance and later released after treatment for minor injuries.On returning to their house,my mother-in-law,who is as sharp as a tack regarding money,informed us that someone had taken two twenty pound notes from her handbag which had been left unattended in the livingroom during the commotion.Apart from the fact that we could never prove who took the money,she is so upset that someone could do this.She does not want any fuss about it but now everyone is under suspicion.Sad days indeed.



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« Reply #1 on: February 15, 2011, 17:57:09 PM »
How dreadful for you all, and particularly your in-laws.  It's certainly a worry when you have elderly parents (as I have, though not quite as elderly as yours) and to think of someone taking advantage to steal from them in a situation like that is despicable.  I'd want to chop their hands off - though determining who it was would obviously be the problem!

I do hope your in-laws are ok and manage to get over this.


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« Reply #2 on: February 15, 2011, 18:04:06 PM »
You have got to report this to the relevant HQs, if you don't it will keep re occurring.

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« Reply #3 on: February 15, 2011, 19:01:48 PM »
Sad yes Alec, and sadder still that it should be a shock to read, but isn't. I totally agree with Tinx, you may not have any firm evidence of who caused the fire but you can record the smoke for the benefit of future victims.

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« Reply #4 on: February 15, 2011, 19:17:22 PM »
How dreadful : :)
Yes agree with tinkerman it needs to be reported to either the care manager(if your parents have one ) or the agency providing the care and as a last resort the CQC (care quality commission )they are legaly bound to investigate  
I have worked in this area of care for sometime and hear of some dreadful things happening to elderly people .I always encourage it to be reported or the person responsible will continue to abuse others
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« Reply #5 on: February 15, 2011, 21:38:55 PM »
It just sums up today's world. I agree with all who say report it. If it is happening on a regular basis and everyone who has suffered report it, it might be possible through process of elimination to identify the thief.

 


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« Reply #6 on: February 15, 2011, 21:58:12 PM »
What happened to conscience?  How could anyone get pleasure from spending money they have stolen from an elderly person?  And to think, it was their generation that could leave the door unlocked all day or the key on a piece of string.....

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« Reply #7 on: February 16, 2011, 09:06:16 AM »
Thank you everyone.I will report it as suggested despite my mother-in-law's wishes to the contrary.I have pointed out to her that it could happen to someone else,or,already has,but I didn't want to press home the idea at the time as she was so upset.I think the matter was made worse by the fact that the missing money was a part of the £100 my father-in-law had given her for her birthday on New Years Day.She is housebound and obviously hadn't made up her mind what to ask my wife to buy her with it.I will let you know of any developments.Look after the old ones please.

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« Reply #8 on: February 16, 2011, 14:24:44 PM »
Yes Alec,i would report the matter.

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« Reply #9 on: February 18, 2011, 13:20:29 PM »
Finally the person who deals with this contacted me and the relevant information has been passed on.Both in-laws are getting OK.




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