I started a post asking what the situation was regarding people returning to the UK etc. I was ridiculed (nothing new as I am obviously NOT one of the 'in team).
1. You were not ridiculed
2. People who never miss an opportunity to criticise what we do here rarely feel part of the "in crowd"
3. Quit complaining, you do it even in posts you make on subjects that have nothing to do with how the forum is run. Such as this one.
4. If you (or anyone else) don't like the way we do things there is no requirement to come here. You have huge clarity on how a forum should be run (even though your experience of actually doing it is zilch) and I have spent 10 years suggesting to people who know better than us to get on and set up a rival forum and show us how it is done. In those 10 years few have put their superior forum administration knowledge into practice, and the few that did are no longer around.
5. I'd humbly suggest if you do set up a forum, that you avoid the whole accusing old British women/desperate for sex with local men area of discussion. They tend not to like that.
The rest of your post was ok though.