I'm sure you would receive me warmly if I turned up unannounced over in your living room and p***ed on your settee. The decision is easy, take us as we are or leave us - and the decision is mine, not yours. If you can't accept the way the forum is run them no apologies. Most people use it as the FREE resource it is, and enjoy it. If you can't, I'll put you out of our misery.
That is my final explanation of how the site is run to you, and my final word on the subject.