Sadly as an offshoot of this incredible love story of two people still together after a couple of fortnights on holiday and half a dozen phone calls spanning a year, 3 kids will find themselves uprooted from their school and routine in the UK, dragged along as baggage in this quest to be with the man of mum's dreams.
Maybe most people would say nothing, but you brought your story to the public forum here. Why is it all about what you want? Surely what's best for your kids is more important than going off to live with someone you hardly know. My experience is that the kids I recall previously from similar upheavals kick stones along sokaks day in day out as they walk around in all weathers with absolutely nothing to do to pass the time as mum didn't think school was all that important and she isn't around much either.
Maybe you will be the one that chases her dream and catches it, it would be about time it happened for some British mother looking for love. But if you think your few weeks, few emails and few phone calls over a year are proof that it's right to drag your kids behind you so you can do what's right for you alone then it is obvious you haven't got a bloody clue about anything.