My point is that before you spend tens of thousands of pounds there is a question you need to answer for yourself. Do you want, 100%, to buy a property abroad". If you aren't 100% behind the idea you are taking an almighty gamble. I have met a number of people who bought even though their heart wasn't 100% in it, and I thought at that time that they were probably wrong to do so. In most caes this turned out to be correct.
Buying abroad isn't for everyone, whether they can afford it or not - I hope you do find that you totally want this, because if you buy in that frame of mind I doubt you will regret it.