thanks everyone for clarifying this, as I said before Im a sucker for a sob story and would probably have given her the money.
Its so hard to know what to do when people are begging, I find I have to just not make eye contact, but always feel really mean.
Theres an old lady who sometimes has wood tied to her back and she has been at our gate a couple of times asking for money, we haven't given her any, but did give her some fruit when she approached us when we were walking home from the market.
I saw someone else giving her a food parcel.
Its so hard when you see people going through the bins, but I have no idea what they are after. If I knew I would gladly collect it for them.