I think Rindi said it beautifully Guy......quite simply, your Dad is a remarkable Man, we could all learn a lot from his courage, his determination, his sense of humour and his 'naughty' twinkle. You only need to meet him once to know what a special person he is. We all feel so useless, and it is heartbreaking to hear your news, but please take comfort from the love of his friends. We are all here for you, for Dad, your Brothers and family. Be sure to send everyone's love when you speak to him - he will be listening and will no doubt think we're all a sentimental lot of wallies......but tell him anyway !. Pookie sized hugs and love xxxx