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Offline kevin3

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Re: ArtyMar's blog: buying the dream
« Reply #150 on: June 13, 2015, 18:05:44 PM »

    That's a good one,  oversleep did we.!!           ;)



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« Reply #151 on: June 13, 2015, 19:14:02 PM »
Oh, Echogirl1, I'm so sorry: 1) that we couldn't meet up and 2) that you had such a horrendous time trying! (Also sorry to have missed the wine and chocs, but they may not have tasted too good mixed up with washing machine water and suds, so on second thoughts, I'll pass on that one. Never mind, next time  . . .

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« Reply #152 on: June 13, 2015, 19:48:03 PM »
Ha! I had exactly that issue with a washing machine myself on the Sunday night! Minus the frock, sandals, chocolate and wine though.

Well it was a shame you didn't make it - you missed the male stripper, Arty doing her Shirley Bassey impression and me and Gillian being Baby and Scary Spice. Not to mention the 5 course slap-up meal we were treated to by the very handsome man that stopped his yacht and came ashore when he saw our loveliness whilst sunbathing on Koca Calis beach.


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« Reply #153 on: June 13, 2015, 21:09:52 PM »
Oh, yes - my Shirley Bassey impression was really something to behold. Now you've let the cat out of the bag re that handsome man who stopped his yacht when he spotted us. Now I'll have to explain to OH :(

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« Reply #154 on: June 14, 2015, 07:24:46 AM »
Sorry, Arty!

I'm trying to ring you by the way   :)

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Re: ArtyMar's blog: buying the dream
« Reply #155 on: June 14, 2015, 07:53:07 AM »
Rather sorry I missed out now!   :D
Things have been somewhat hectic with the rest of the family back in Blighty and having to juggle the animals, garden and everything else on my own....they're back tomorrow after three weeks away and I have to say I'm quite looking forward to seeing them.

Count me in next time!

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Re: ArtyMar's blog: buying the dream
« Reply #156 on: June 14, 2015, 15:36:31 PM »

  The next one is in Coven  try girls, just read it in the Witch Magazine.

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« Reply #157 on: June 14, 2015, 20:57:09 PM »
V clever, Kevin3 (even if I did have to read it twice).
Menthol gave me a great day today by taking OH and son off to Calis market while I had the time to myself lazing on Calis beach, reading and dipping in and out of the sea. (I'm not a market lover.)
Right now, OH, son and I are all sitting down at Zantara beach club restaurant with the waves lapping just a few yards away. Lovely food, lovely setting, lovely day and lovely evening. Tomorrow: para gliding in Olu Deniz. I'd like this holiday to go on forever. . .

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« Reply #158 on: June 18, 2015, 18:29:24 PM »
Sadly holidays do not go on forever. We're now back in good ole Blighty. Weather is fine and sunny here and I've been told that the weather in Calis has gone from being glorious to being mighty hot, so we left at the right time, I s'pose. Now I'm looking for flights in late September, early October; don't think I can wait a whole year before my next Calis Beach fix. OH never feels the same way though, much as he loves the holiday while it happens. His reaction is always: 'but it's only 3 months since our last visit'. I'm wondering how I can change this. . .
In the meantime, back to the blog- it's an ongoing saga. . .

LATE FEBRUARY 2010  London

BLOG 21: Home again

We’re in our kitchen at home. I’ve dumped my case in the hall (only one small piece of hand luggage) and OH is making me a cuppa. I begin my tale and check his expression to make sure he’s taking it all in. Finally, incredulously, he says “you mean, it hasn’t even been started yet?” I heave a sigh – “That’s right, but now we’ve settled all these other things, they’ll be starting soon – maybe today!”

Only after I’ve gone through everything a second time does he say, “why didn’t you tell me all this when I phoned?” and I say the truth: in view of his health and tendency to worry, I thought it best to see how things played out first – and hey, haven’t things turned out for the better?

“But,” he says, “will they really be able to finish it on time?” This gives me the opportunity to remind him of the penalty clauses I put into the contract. “So, if by any chance, it isn’t finished by the end of June, they’ll put us up in a similar villa free of charge – and if we have to make another journey to ok things before final snagging and payment, they’ll pay for our trip. It’s all in the new contract.” I don’t feel like poring over the revised contract right now. Actually, I feel like celebrating. We’ll have a beautiful villa, closer to the sea – and a wonderful holiday in just a few months time! Forget the cuppa – isn’t there something a bit stronger? Oh, well – too early in the morning, so how can we celebrate? I want him to join with me in seeing the positives but despite my upbeat discourse, he’s still looking grim.

“What’s the matter” I ask, “don’t you trust them?” He says that remains to be seen, after we see progress via photos. What is it then? Something’s up; I know my OH too well.

“Let’s sit down. I’ve been doing a lot of thinking while you’ve been away—“ Oh, dear, doesn’t sound good. Not that OH is incapable of thinking a lot, of course (he may eventually read this!) “And there’s something I didn’t tell you. . .”

Seems like we’re both playing the same game, not wanting to worry each other, but I’m sure as hell worried now. We sit down and he reaches for my hand (OMG what’s coming?)

…..

. . .  to be continued  . . .usually posted on Thursday



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Re: ArtyMar's blog: buying the dream
« Reply #159 on: June 18, 2015, 20:41:14 PM »
Oh no - I can't possibly wait a week!!!! :o




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