You obviously have not been reading the neutral papers. Last week , Turkey recalled it's ambassador from Germany in protest over the German parliament voting to recognise what was done in Armenia was genocide.
For Turkey to gain entry all current members must be in favour. Cyprus, Greece and France will veto any application. Joining the EU is not just based on what Germany says. Entry is complicated. In 25 years Turkey has actually not really progressed it's application. The next president of France is likely to be Nicolas Darkish and he will veto any Turkish application.
The EU is talking to Turkey and has to talk to Turkey because of the refugee crisis. Without Turkey's involvement the numbers trying to cross into the EU will rise significantly and we will be back to seeing children being washed up dead on the beaches.
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