Lets put this topic in perspective, the orginial poster had an perception due to her experience, lots of people stated their positive experience of Bekir, she accepted this saying maybe her current situation clouded her judgement and was willing to give him the benifit of her doubt.
I don't think it was a slur someone posted their experience and he (Bekir) recieved a glowing recomendation.
Lorraine
I would say this was a good post and shows the strength & the value of the forum.