Nobody likes to read negative topics about individuals and from the moderation side it is very complex and difficult to do the right thing. If we leave it we can be accused of failing to moderate competently, not protecting the individual, if we lock or remove it we can be accused of either looking after our own interests, preventing free speech, or even running a forum that ignores the negative in an effort to manipulate the forum into a contrived collection of posts where people can only discuss the good things about the area.
Actually what we are trying to do is provide a platform that accurately reflects life exactly as it is, and show the good and the bad equally.
In cases like this, if the poster has a criticism of another member it will not be removed if 1. The post is made in the real name of the writer (no "Truthsayer's" with made up hotmail email addresses) and 2. If the post is based - or appears to be - on facts rather than speculation or personal attack.
In all such situations, both sides have equal right to put their view.
I would ask everyone to consider our position - we are trying to run a first class forum and not every post is about a great night out or a lovely new apartment purchase. If it was YOUR apartment would you have posted? I'm sure you would have.
Now to the truth about things after 4 years experience. Don't trust anyone you haven't known for a LONG time, don't assume anything and don't lend anyone money. Do those three and you may just survive. A friend in need is generally a long term enemy in disguise.
I further hope Lee will come and defend himself, that is fair.
