Like I said only trying to help using my experience!
The drip,drip of BAD news wears people down and people can feed on it in a way which doesn't help. Sometimes this is done by people 'competing' for who has the worst tale to tell. Sometime people go out on a limb and muddy the waters by involving people/orgasnisations who they think can help but will make things worse. Also what might appear a good outcome for one person may be a bad outcome for another such as informing the tabloid press. And I find it odd that some people post on here about incidents that happened months, even years ago, yet at the time of the incident they refer do not merit posting on CBF at that time. This sounds to me like people jumping on the 'band wagon of despair' when the situation does not merit it.
I am all for posting SIGNIFICANT information but we do not need everyone to report EVERY little concern. After all we don't report EVERY kindness!
I do understand the need to feel secure and worry free but Suzi; I am not sure I agree that every incident being posted reduces worry. I think for some it significantly adds to it - makes peole worry when they do not need to.
I am only trying to help people get a proper perspective on what is happening and promoting the idea that significant incidents should be reported to the Authorities and the Authorites should be trusted to deal with the situation.