I guess you mean Harman?
I'd be happy to stay in either - and I'm not sure where the 'God's waiting room' came from, the clientèle for both are very similar (not sure if that doubles your concerns though
) - I've been to both many times and never considered either to be a haven for coffin dodgers
Pool wise you can't choose between them in my opinion, both quiet and plenty of room.
Harman is about 4-5 minutes walk from the centre of Calis, not in Fethiye town by any stretch of the imagination.
I'd say you won't go far wrong with either, both will be pindrop quiet though, and if it were me I'd be happy with either but if pushed choose Club-E
Hope something helps amongst that waffle.