i would say the Delta without a doubt...
You say you dont want to share the same hotel, as you want to stay at the roof top suite on your wedding night, if you haven,t booked yet i would certainly do that as it gets soooooo booked up,
you would not have a problem with our guests there as you can have breakfast brought to your room,and all other food from the restaurant downstairs, and to be honest we stayed there last year for 2 nights and it was fabulous, we only left the roof top suite once for some food, with the facilities on the balcony you dont need to....