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Offline Colwyn

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Re: Is This Sexual Harassment?
« Reply #20 on: March 01, 2013, 14:44:22 PM »
Depends on how you look at it.



Offline nichola

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Re: Is This Sexual Harassment?
« Reply #21 on: March 01, 2013, 15:04:15 PM »
The question is, would he have done this if the other guest was a man?

Answer. No! He did it because the guest was a woman therefore the act of drawing no doubt an over sized willie to get a cheap laugh was down to gender and therefore an act based on the sex of the recipient.

Was it harassment? Maybe! Maybe not! It would as has already been said depend on the woman on how the receiving end felt about it. Some may just laugh it off and see it for as a reflection on him. Others may feel shocked, others embarrassed and unsure how to respond and if this is live TV not a very nice way to feel I would imagine.

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Re: Is This Sexual Harassment?
« Reply #22 on: March 01, 2013, 15:31:33 PM »
Actually I think a man would do this to another man. Normally along with a slogan such as Dick Head.


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Re: Is This Sexual Harassment?
« Reply #23 on: March 01, 2013, 15:53:22 PM »
I honestly doubt there would be many people (male or female) shocked at a drawing of a willy - and size is not important  ;D

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Re: Is This Sexual Harassment?
« Reply #24 on: March 01, 2013, 18:26:16 PM »
Agreed - but even if you were offended - were you also sexually harassed? I simply can't see it.

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Re: Is This Sexual Harassment?
« Reply #25 on: March 01, 2013, 18:57:54 PM »
We are almost getting into the sharing of joke texts that are sexually related with the opposite sex being harassment.
No way as I see it. I will forward risqué texts with certain females at work because I know they will find them humorous, that is not harassment...(I think)  :-\

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Re: Is This Sexual Harassment?
« Reply #26 on: March 01, 2013, 19:04:05 PM »
But if one decided to take your text as harassment rather than humorous, including her might cost you your job.

It's ironic that at the time where women are finally at their most equal and more free than ever to live as liberated a life as they now can, that some of them go out of their way to find reasons to be offended.

If I was sitting at a bar and a girl passed me a drawing of her fanny, I wouldn't feel in the least harassed. There, I said it!

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Re: Is This Sexual Harassment?
« Reply #27 on: March 01, 2013, 19:07:28 PM »
Being accused of sexual harrassment is a very unpleasant and stressful experience.

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Re: Is This Sexual Harassment?
« Reply #28 on: March 01, 2013, 19:18:46 PM »
The definition of sexual harassment......

'Sexual harassment is bullying or coercion of a sexual nature, or the unwelcome or inappropriate promise of rewards in exchange for sexual favors'

In my eyes... no, not sexual harassment. He drew a picture and passed it to her... he didn't bully her or coerce her.. and if it was only a sketch he didn't promise any sexual favours...

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Is This Sexual Harassment?
« Reply #29 on: March 01, 2013, 20:44:09 PM »
Keith! - that just made me laugh sooo much! But you're  right.




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