A very convincing conman - Ibrahim Kucuk

[Janice1971]

Hi all, some of you may remember me from a while ago (my estranged husband and I used to own Ayse's Cakes in Gunlukbasi), I have been mulling over whether I actually wanted to do this but here goes.........  9 months ago and after nearly 7 years of marriage my husband returned to Turkey for a weeks holiday to visit his family and to cut a long story short he never returned, it turns out that the whole of my marriage was a lie as he started to sleep with another woman 3 months after we got married and before I moved out to Turkey.  I lost over £140k whilst with him and as some of you may or may not know I have two beautiful daughters with him aged 6 and 3, whom he hasn't contacted in 9 months!  This post is genuinely about stopping this excuse for a man doing this to any of your friends or relatives, he is a greedy, immoral man who obviously is capable of faking emotions.  He has already been in trouble with several women who he has been dating over the past few months as they have all found out about each other, I know that last year he was working down the front at one of the Chinese restaurants I cant remember the name, but please , please, warn anybody that is coming out, his name is Ibo or Ibrahim Kucuk, very tall and very thin, I haven't got a picture to post as I have destroyed .

[stoop]

Very brave of you to post this Janice! I'm at a loss what to say really.

At least you have two lovely girls to show for the years you spent with the swine.

[Toky]

I remember reading about this Janice and it's obviously still raw. Keep your dignity, and take good care of your two little girls. They'll appreciate your single handed love and care one day in the future. Then you'll pat yourself on the back and take the credit due. I understand the need for your post but you and your girls are all that's important just now.  Best wishes

[Rimms]

Yes, I also remember reading the original sad story, like Toky I can understand how hurt you have been by all of this but please remember that the Internet keeps a record forever and you may or may not want your girls reading these posts in say 10 years time.

I feel for you and am sure others will heed your warning.

[puma]

i think i know you from the seril where he worked if this is right he worshiped the ground you walked on.
wow it just goes to show you can't trust a turkish fella when the money runs out, theyvstart  looking for their next victim.
please feel free to correct me if i am wrong

[Janice1971]

Yes you are quite right, I met him when he was working at Seril, I am personally over him but what I still cant get over and what disgusts me the most is the way that he just walked away from the children!  And as for my girls reading this in later years, that's fine because by then they will know the truth about him as Im not going to lie to them.  My girls are my world and they have pulled me through some very dark times.  We are now a very close little family and the girls have a great support network.  I really just wanted to warn others as it seems that it was all about the money and once it was all gone we were surplice to requirement!

[janmack]

Good on you Janice!  Wishing you and your girls lots of happiness in the future...you deserve it. x