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Offline Lotty

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Re: Appropriate behaviour?!
« Reply #10 on: July 25, 2013, 18:15:29 PM »
They kiss it too Jacqui!



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Re: Appropriate behaviour?!
« Reply #11 on: July 25, 2013, 18:27:20 PM »
What the floor, never seen them do that!!   ;) ;

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Re: Appropriate behaviour?!
« Reply #12 on: July 25, 2013, 18:47:47 PM »
Don't shout "hello" at the dolmus driver when you want him to stop.

I don't know the correct phrase but "Lutfen dur" might do

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Re: Appropriate behaviour?!
« Reply #13 on: July 25, 2013, 19:51:17 PM »
What the floor, never seen them do that!!      ;) ;
Yes Gary, We have seen it in the Market, happened to us a few times...Perhaps you don't get up earlier enough for the first sales.   ;) ;D
We bought a push along toy for our Granddaughter a couple of years ago, it was in a small shop on the Antalya Road and it was just after lunchtime. When we bought the item, the guy held the money high in his hand above his head and threw  it violently on the floor, gave us quite a shock.  :o
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Re: Appropriate behaviour?!
« Reply #14 on: July 25, 2013, 19:57:12 PM »
Don't mention the war. I did, but I think I got away with it.

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Re: Appropriate behaviour?!
« Reply #15 on: July 25, 2013, 19:57:44 PM »
Oops Jacqui - think you might have to have a re-read  :)

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Re: Appropriate behaviour?!
« Reply #16 on: July 25, 2013, 22:50:23 PM »
If you go into anyone's home remove your shoes at the door.
If you buy from a shop (probably early in the day) and the shopkeeper throws your money on the floor in front of you, don't worry, it's a Turkish custom that it's lucky to throw the first money of the day down on the floor. 
I've never seen that.
But I'm not normally awake until 10am lol

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Re: Appropriate behaviour?!
« Reply #17 on: July 26, 2013, 11:08:26 AM »
Our first trip to calis and we have found everyone to be so pleasant and polite. Whilst walking the prom in the evening, the restaurants will ssk you to look at their menus as they are trying to earn a living. A polite no thank you is all that is needed. Or like us you can have a look, and go back at later date   :)

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Re: Appropriate behaviour?!
« Reply #18 on: July 26, 2013, 14:59:08 PM »
Our first trip to calis and we have found everyone to be so pleasant and polite. Whilst walking the prom in the evening, the restaurants will ssk you to look at their menus as they are trying to earn a living. A polite no thank you is all that is needed. Or like us you can have a look, and go back at later date    :)


ABSOLUTELY. I'm still unnerved by my very recent encounter. Have to get it off my chest please. Sorry.

 I got chatting to someone in the dentist's waiting room yesterday. She told me she'd just returned from her first trip to Calis. Needless to say I was delighted to hear all about her holiday. However, it quickly became a really uncomfortable conversation (and one the other 3 patients and reception staff were also listening to) as it became obvious that this woman had decided that the way to deal with 'them' as she charmingly referred to our Turkish restaurant friends, was to be downright rude and obnoxious.

I tried to enlighten her with some rudiments of general etiquette and encourage some tolerance, but it was obvious I was wasting both my breath and brain cells even trying. In the end I'm afraid I became quite angry and told her she was a rude racist and that she should stick to holidaying in the UK.

Her response was to look at me as though I was the imbecile. There was nowhere to escape to, so we both had to still sit there. You could have cut the atmosphere with a butter knife. I'm still angry. Ridiculous I know.

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Re: Appropriate behaviour?!
« Reply #19 on: July 26, 2013, 15:21:35 PM »
Good for you Menthol! Not ridiculous at all.




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