Why is it such a surprise that this isn't the resort where time stood still ?
The question wasn't really asking if Calis had changed, of course it has and was always going to. The question was asked because there is a lot of evidence on here and elsewhere that people who love(d) Calis are spending far less time in it - both visitors and residents. So what I was driving at was are we spending less time overall there because it had changed, or because we had changed.
I can't shake the place off - I've had more than enough Calis for one lifetime and I've said before, often stand at the gate at Dalaman waiting to board, convinced I won't be back for at least a few years - then within a week I have the flights booked for next week's TR jaunt! I can't explain the feeling I get, driving into Calis on the transfer - it's a mixture of too many things but I'm excited (or as excited as I get) to be back. The kids too, I was touched when they recently told me they never feel as calm and relaxed anywhere abroad like they do when they are in Calis.
But most of what we do doesn't involve Calis, although we always stay there. So I posed the question, why is that - because it has changed/evolved or because we did.