Thankyou so much Heather for saying that

It means alot to me and i'm sure it does to jordanna and liann also

It is possible to have a serious relationship in calis. Especially as some of us have been going for years on end - we are not silly little naive girls who think we're madly in love after a two week holiday! We've been through and seen enough. We're in long - term relationships- never given up, despite all this c**p!!
It's very obvious to me that oscarj doesn't have a very exciting life - and has nothing better to do than make comments on something that she knows nothing about!! and just relays what has been heard. Very sad! [|)]
There are definatley some good ones

My boyfriend being one of them! .. Thanks very much

I can assure everyone that all 3 of our heads are tightly screwed on and have been through loads of people interferring and **** stirring. It gets a bit tiring after a while!!
Jordanna and liann - you know how your relationships are. You know where you stand - as do i!! Nobody else does, bottom line. Just a petty and pathetic comment made!! As you'd expect from an interferring person - who just ended up looking like an idiot in the end!!

As Heather said, there are some people that are not strong enough to keep a relationship together. And go over purely for the fun!!
Thanks everyone for the nice comments!
This is getting really boring now!
LETS MOVE ON!!