I hope Arty is ok, and wasn't threatened. She hasn't posted since.
Me too kevin, have been thinking the same thing.
Yes - Scunner guessed it some posts ago.
Thank you everyone for your support - what an incredible forum this is! Inspector, special thanks to you too, as unasked, you stepped in to try to help - but so far, to no avail. I live in hope.
OH was taken ill when we were there in September, as I posted, and we had to cut short our holiday and fly home - straight from airport to A & E, but he is now recovered (suffered awful psychotic symptoms even after the infection was cured which was frightening, but is now ok on that score also).