Sorry Elaina, i missed part of your last post, i can say that i was not laughing at you, i really dont know where you got that from, certainly not from my posts, as i said i am very sympathetic to your plight but will not be coerced into anything by anybody as i have said previously it is only my opinion. I think you are very brave posting your plight and have posted it in the right place to let everbody know about this guy, but everbody are still entitled to there opinion which is the whole purpose of a forum.