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« Reply #20 on: July 03, 2011, 08:42:31 AM »
Must admit I am quite shocked by the comment about young children being 'pushed round the resort at all hours'. I have two young children (fortunately they are not called Charlene or Brittany or I  really would be enraged at this point  ;)), and in the very hot summer months the evenings are the best time to take them out for a walk and for them to try to get some fresh air before they go to bed. You see plenty of Turkish families with young babies out at night walking along the prom (I know because I often walk out with my Turkish sister in law and her children), surely they cannot also be expected to keep the children away from the prom so that everyone can have a child free holiday?!

It would be far more irresponsible (and disruptive to others) if I were to drag my sons around the resort in the middle of the day when it is far too hot for them to be out and about and tantrums would be sure to ensue. It's the children's holiday too, they cannot be expected to be kept indoors for the holiday's duration just because someone may take offence at their pushchair!

If we choose to eat out in the evenings with the kids (which we by no means do every night, not that it would be anyone else's business if we did) we ensure that as far as is possible they are no bother to anyone else. We do not sit getting sozzled next to the pram and wouldn't dream of taking them into bars or nightclubs.

I appreciate that children are not everyone's cup of tea (I remember my relaxed holidays to Calis pre-kids and how I used to groan inwardly at the sight of a table of toddlers in a restaurant) but don't think its fair to assume that just because someone, shock horror, takes their child out at night they are deliberately out to ruin everyone's holiday, or a bad parent.
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« Reply #21 on: July 03, 2011, 09:13:16 AM »
serkulmehmet

Forgive me if I did not make myself clear. I do not expect Calis to be child free and have absolutely no objection to families going out together for the evening and eating out together.

What I do not like to see is those parents who do sit getting sozzled next to their kids pushchairs in bars and/or nightclubs. I've seen it so often in Scarlett for example when two or three groups all arrive together at well after 12.


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« Reply #22 on: July 03, 2011, 09:28:44 AM »
Aah ok, that makes more sense now. It just seemed like a rather sweeping generalisation!
I am always tucked up in bed long before 12 (in preparation for aforementioned kids jumping on me at 6am the next day) so it never occurred to me that people were out with small kids in bars until silly o'clock. Bet they pay for it the next day with the lethal hangover/sun/small children cocktail though :P

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« Reply #23 on: July 03, 2011, 12:39:05 PM »
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You would be correct tiddly winks. The worst example was in Oludeniz with a girl of I would guess to have been about 14 wearing a very low strappy top and "sprayed on" denim hot pants or whatever they call them these days.



I'm glad we have the same definition. It's just sometimes on holidays people have different ones, I usually wear shorts and vest top while out to deal with the heat but make sure the top is not too low cut. I think some girls need to see where the line has been crossed between being dressed comfortably in the heat and then revealing a little too much!

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« Reply #24 on: July 03, 2011, 20:54:43 PM »
Re the rubbish issue, I actually watch them spraying the inside of the bins near where we were staying and yet leaving rotten food stuffs which had been left outside of the bins. AGHHHHHHHHHH:(

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« Reply #25 on: July 03, 2011, 21:02:17 PM »
Glad you had a nice time, H, sorry we missed you..

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« Reply #26 on: July 03, 2011, 21:18:08 PM »
Indeed Moe - very bad planning.

And of course I should have said that we missed out on seeing GB and Nick which was a big disappointment.
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« Reply #27 on: July 04, 2011, 11:54:48 AM »
Hi Just regarding the kids comments, After I have chased my 3 year old around all day she normally falls asleep in her pushchair all snug with her teddy and blanket and we do enjoy a few well earned drinks in the evening breeze outside a bar Bostons probably!
In no way do we get hammered! BUT we do need to relax as well.
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« Reply #28 on: July 04, 2011, 12:27:10 PM »
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Loungers:
People who will insist on laying across three seats at Gates at the airport. There are barely enough seats for everyone to get one anyway and this practice is about as inconsiderate as it gets.




Just to agree with you on this point H - it really annoys me as well !!!

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« Reply #29 on: July 04, 2011, 15:23:37 PM »
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Hi Just regarding the kids comments, After I have chased my 3 year old around all day she normally falls asleep in her pushchair all snug with her teddy and blanket and we do enjoy a few well earned drinks in the evening breeze outside a bar Bostons probably!
In no way do we get hammered! BUT we do need to relax as well.


Hear hear!  you're on holiday for Heaven's sake so why not - we probably all do stuff on hols we wouldn't do at home and as long as nobody is being uncaring then you should be able to keep little ones around you without all the "tut tuts"   Asleep in the pushchair worked just fine and dandy for our granddaughter last year and meant we could all relax during and after dinner - job done.




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