I would suggest that there are still a lot of vunerable young girls aged 14 or 15 who certainly dont know what they are doing. They may seem grown up and act grown up but they are still underage and children. The aged 16 years law is for their own protection. I thought that I was grown up at 14 and 15 but when I look back I certainly wasnt.!!! Of course they wanted to be on Top of the tops who wouldnt have wanted to be but it still doesnt give anyone the right to take advantage of them.. . There have been countless numbers of choirboys and children abused by priests over decades. Some of these kids were abused by the same men for years they didnt stop going back for whatever reason. They the same as these girls were vunerable kids at the time. My point was that I find the amusing remarks distasteful. I have personal experience of abuse in my familyand trust me it isnt amusing in any way!!!
Again, I want to point out there was
no attempt at humour in my post - I take this very seriously.
Whilst agreeing with some of your comments regarding taking advantage of youngsters, it is also appears that you see this in black and white and have no intention of apportioning any responsibility to the “victims” here.
This is where we will have to agree to differ.
I offer my respect to those who work relentlessly to stop child abuse and applaud their dedication. I am all too aware of the lifelong damage it can cause. I also see that these valuable resources can be used less effectively by following up on cases where someone has looked back on their own behaviour and suddenly decided they were “victims” rather than someone who, at that time, was willing to trade their self-respect for short term gain.
Clearly, no two cases are the same however, I formed the opinion that some of the people taking part in the documentary were not blameless.
I was immature and impulsive at 15 – but I knew right from wrong as I suspect some of these women did too. It seems to me there were choices available to them. Protecting children has to prioritise those who are not given any choice.