That's the thing, the sitting on your own bit, it makes people feel safer and more comfortable if they know someone, especially at the beginning. Its not so bad when you are in the hotel because you recognise fellow holiday makers at the other tables. Ive been on my own a few times and I know what Susie means. Sometimes you want to be on your own, and you don't really want it glaringly obvious that you're by yourself. Other times you could be longing for a chat. We should have a CBF sign! - like a red rose ha-ha!